Why Pulling Girls From Your Regular Bar is a Bad Move
I’m back in Pattaya, enjoying some downtime with a couple of my brothers, great dinners, hitting the GoGo bars, and soaking up the vibrant scene on Walking Street. As always, you can expect full reviews, photos, and more insights soon. But today, I need to address a recurring issue that keeps popping up with guys who visit Thailand: stop pulling girls from your regular hangout spots that are supposed to be just for hanging out, not pulling pussy.
Repeating Myself – A Broken Record
I know I’ve covered this before, but apparently, some of you guys just don’t get it. You keep thinking you’re different, your game is tighter, and the rules don’t apply to you. Spoiler alert: they do. Let me break it down again so it sinks in this time.
We all have our go-to spots, those comfortable bars where you enjoy cold beers, shoot some pool, and catch up with your buddies. These places should be your “Cheers,” a spot to relax and unwind, no pressure from women or staff for lady drinks and bar fines, not your hunting ground. Yet, many of you can’t resist the urge when there’s an attractive girl working there. Sure, she’s sweet to you, laughs at your stupid jokes, and maybe even gets a bit flirty. But here’s the cold truth: that’s her job. She’s there to make money, and you’re part of that equation.
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Maybe feelings get hurt, drama unfolds, or it simply becomes awkward because you see her with outer guys and she’s ignoring you while she’s working other dudes…
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Common Outcomes You’ll Avoid
Here’s what usually happens: You pull a girl from your favorite spot, and nine times out of ten, things eventually go sideways. Maybe feelings get hurt, drama unfolds, or it simply becomes awkward because you see her with outer guys and she’s ignoring you while she’s working other dudes. Suddenly, that comfortable spot you loved turns into a place you have to avoid. I’ve only known one guy who’s successfully navigated repeatedly pulling girls from his regular bar without drama, and he’s not a holiday visitor. For everyone else, it rarely ends well.
Look, there are countless places designed specifically for meeting women: GoGo bars like Tycoon, beer bars like those on soi 7, freelancers at places like the Thermae Cafe, Oskars and so many more. If you’re looking for companionship, go to these spots instead. The selection is vast, the rules clear, and you’re unlikely to create unnecessary tension.
Don’t Be Lazy About Meeting Women
A big part of the issue is laziness and lack of self-control. You guys think short-term, letting your smaller head make decisions that your bigger head knows better than to agree with. You’ve convinced yourself you’re special, the girl is different, and this time it’ll be different. Newsflash: You’re not special, she’s not different, and it won’t be different this time.
Final Advice: Some Places Should Be Scared
Avoiding these pitfalls is simple. Keep your regular spot sacred, use it for relaxing, meeting friends, and having a good time without the added complications. Resist the temptation to blur the lines. It might seem like harmless fun, but the consequences almost always outweigh the benefits.
If you’re genuinely an exception, great, this message isn’t for you. But for the vast majority, pay attention. Respect the dynamic, enjoy your regular bars without drama, and seek your adventures elsewhere. Trust me, your overall experience in Thailand will improve dramatically when you stop complicating your life unnecessarily.
That’s all I got for today.
Stay smart, stay sharp and most of all stay real.
It’s your boy JC, peace out.
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